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There were a lot of talk about romance in the media lately. In particular about affairs after marriage.
There are numerous reason why a person would cheat on their spouse. If we look at it from Chinese Metaphysic angle, usually it is highlighted in their BaZi and can be supported by their living environment - Feng Shui.
From a person's BaZi, if the person has a lot of combination in their chart, usually it means complicated relationship problem. If added with clashes then usually the person will have multiple relationship before and even after marriage. Even those without any combination, will have a Peach Blossom combining into their chart every 12 years.
However, not everyone will cheat on their spouse as a result of Bazi combo. A monk or a priest would also have Peach Blossom every 12 years but monks do not just simply disrobe or priest turn their back on their calling in life. Therefore a big factor is due to the person's behaviour and also character. Situations in the person's BaZi will bring them into a situation where they could have the opportunity but it is entirely up to the person to make the decision.
Living environment would also encourage extra peach blossom, meaning the person will have more opportunities to cheat than usual. If one of the cardinal direction, North, South, East or West is enhanced while that location element also coincides with the person's inherent peach blossom then they will have more opportunities than usual even though their Bazi does not indicate it. This is the result of your environment having an effect on your destiny.
There are of course numerous reason why a person would cheat. Top 3 reason being
1. A new relationship would get help a person to create the feeling of excitement.
2. Sense of excitement from cheating the spouse.
3. Sexual frustration from the present relationship. Although in Asian communities, it is not often discussed, however sexual frustration is one of the leading reason for marriage failures. Changes in your libido can actually also be read through your Bazi chart. Therefore, if it the above reason, then it would be helpful to indicate to the couple of the problem they are facing.
However as a consultant, it is always a hard decision for us to contemplate. For a male client, money, wealth is also the same as women. Overly enhancing the wealth element would also bring out the peach blossom inherent in the chart.
My approach most of the time is to let the client know of the upcoming Peach blossom situation if it can be seen from Bazi Chart. Then it is up to the person to mentally control their behaviour.
more articles at:
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yinyangjournal.blogspot.com
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There are numerous reason why a person would cheat on their spouse. If we look at it from Chinese Metaphysic angle, usually it is highlighted in their BaZi and can be supported by their living environment - Feng Shui.
From a person's BaZi, if the person has a lot of combination in their chart, usually it means complicated relationship problem. If added with clashes then usually the person will have multiple relationship before and even after marriage. Even those without any combination, will have a Peach Blossom combining into their chart every 12 years.
However, not everyone will cheat on their spouse as a result of Bazi combo. A monk or a priest would also have Peach Blossom every 12 years but monks do not just simply disrobe or priest turn their back on their calling in life. Therefore a big factor is due to the person's behaviour and also character. Situations in the person's BaZi will bring them into a situation where they could have the opportunity but it is entirely up to the person to make the decision.
Living environment would also encourage extra peach blossom, meaning the person will have more opportunities to cheat than usual. If one of the cardinal direction, North, South, East or West is enhanced while that location element also coincides with the person's inherent peach blossom then they will have more opportunities than usual even though their Bazi does not indicate it. This is the result of your environment having an effect on your destiny.
There are of course numerous reason why a person would cheat. Top 3 reason being
1. A new relationship would get help a person to create the feeling of excitement.
2. Sense of excitement from cheating the spouse.
3. Sexual frustration from the present relationship. Although in Asian communities, it is not often discussed, however sexual frustration is one of the leading reason for marriage failures. Changes in your libido can actually also be read through your Bazi chart. Therefore, if it the above reason, then it would be helpful to indicate to the couple of the problem they are facing.
However as a consultant, it is always a hard decision for us to contemplate. For a male client, money, wealth is also the same as women. Overly enhancing the wealth element would also bring out the peach blossom inherent in the chart.
My approach most of the time is to let the client know of the upcoming Peach blossom situation if it can be seen from Bazi Chart. Then it is up to the person to mentally control their behaviour.
more articles at:
gkhamconsulting.blogspot.com
yinyangjournal.blogspot.com
gkham.com
