DESTINY, Your Friend or Enemy?

Every year there are thousands of youth who graduated from top universities and colleges. All with degrees in hand and ready to conquer the world.

Many don't subscribe to destiny and think that with bull head on, anything can be accomplish. Especially those with certain gift of 'speech', thinks that they can sell their dream to the world.

Fast forward 5-10 years, many would have been beaten by harsh reality of 'success' that was not taught in ivy league or by parent. You can't blame them, because they also don't realize and know. Some will take the pessimist approach, just hope that they can settle for a job that is lasting to be call a career. Some wonder what is missing? Still thinking it is some skill they need to get or acquired.

How come the guy/gal who was not very good in school today is sitting opposite them, interviewing and offering them a job? How and Why?

Did you ever asked those questions? What was your answer?

The Answer is the this big machinery or big 'giant' we call Destiny. The day you are born, it is already at work. Not totally controlling but definitely affecting your life in subtle ways. Those who excel in school, often think that it is entirely their own work. Therefore they have totally disregard destiny and luck.

Most parent would like to believe that hard work is the only thing that guarantees their child's future. They would spend thousands and thousands of hard earn money to enroll their toddler to IQ improving classes, Math improving classes and some even blow their credit card to buy all the latest brain improvement courses for their kid. All this while ignoring destiny.

Within school, when the child excels, slowly they too believe, that all the credit belongs to them entirely. When they child finally become a young adult. The word Destiny is totally wipe out from their mind. The only way to succeed in the world is by yourself and that piece of paper he/she deserved from many years in colleges and university.

Very soon, they would meet up with destiny face to face. Often times, its existence is only made known when they encounter failure upon failure in their job, in relationship and also when comparing with their friends or even next of kin.

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Many will also choose the path to start their own business. Knowing in their heart that they are smarter, more hardworking and essentially better than others. When business fails to make a profit, the world provide so many factors, to attribute to the failure such as marketing, sales, how to make friends and contacts and the list goes on. Many would only shun, when the word of Destiny is even mentioned.

These are the same people that would pay big hefty sum of money for marketing and making their new business office looks nice and elegant, BUT stingy on the mention of hiring capable Feng Shui Master. When its time to wind up their business, then only they want to hire a capable Feng Shui consultant, at the same time complain about how they could not afford the high fees.

Some went on to their next business venture, digging further into their credit cards and also parent's life saving. Very sure the next one will be their success. Unknowingly, the next venture will also become a failure.

Is there no way to escape Destiny and its claw/palm?

All the examples that I mentioned above, are the character traits of those people have to fight to get where they are in life. And most of them think, that fighting with better weapons (self improvement courses, latest gadgets etc) towards this thing/entity called destiny, then they are likely to win in life.

The SECRET is ACCEPTANCE. If you have not accepted destiny's existence, you would never have a chance to use it to your favour. Just like the environment in Feng Shui, if you have not accepted its existence of the various elements, then you can never use it. However it will continue to affect you regardless whether you believe it or not.

Once when you accept there is this GIANT called Destiny, then you can make friends with it and it will become one of your strongest ally in life. It will be able to tell you in advance the bumps, obstacles, rock, trap and valley ahead in your life journey. No longer will you be walking like a blind person with sheer brute force, hoping to smash your way out of a jungle to reach your destination.

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Through Destiny, it will also customize a blue print for you. To search for what type of environment, what type of house and layout. That home that suits your destiny, will improve you luck day by day harnessing the energy of the environment that suits you instead of against you.

Some of my client make friends with their destiny very early in life, and they are able to end their career and business graciously. Some of them only meet up and accept destiny in their darkest moment in life, nevertheless once they accepted and begin to use it, they are improving beyond their dreams.

Some in their 50's only finally comprehend the existence of destiny, in that case I can only advise them to salvage whatever they can. Of course there are some people, whom in their whole life never need to think about Destiny because they can have all the money in the world, but when sickness knocks on the door, they too will ponder on its existence.

1. If you are in your early teen and able to comprehend this article. You are 10-20 years ahead of your peers.
2. If you are into business for sometime and are not making headway, maybe it is time to re-map your direction.
3. If you have met with much failure in life, then it high time you make friends with Destiny.
4. If you think none of what I am writing is true, keep this article, you may have to re-read when you meet up with it.

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My description may sound like a fairy tale. But I have been working with Destiny and many other's Destiny for the past decade....everyday.