TRAVEL Feng Shui - Chiang Mai City

I was in Chiang Mai on 17-20 November for our family vacation. Even though on vacation, there is much Feng Shui to talk about and explore.

with wife and kids at Chedi Luang Temple

Arriving in Chiang Mai city airport for the first time, the first thing that struck me was the beautiful mountain that is near the city. As a Feng Shui practitioner, it is one of our occupational habit to look at mountains and rivers!

Chiang Mai city has a beautiful Broken Army Mountain 破軍山 behind its city. It is almost as magnificent as the one in Yuen Long , Hong Kong.

View of the Mountain at the back of Chiang Mai City

Chiang Mai Province is a former capital of the Kingdom of Lanna (1296–1768). Only later it was integrated in the formation of Thailand from Siam.

As our tour brings us around the city, and with explanation from our excellent local guide. The city does owe its history and also current development to this single magnificent mountains and the qi it bestows on the city.
I come a San Yuan Feng Shui 三元地理 lineage. 三元 San Yuan means the 3 factors which is Yin Yang 陰陽, Direction/Location 方向／方位 and Timing 時.

Whereas San He 三合風水 are more concern with Yin Yang陰陽 and Direction/Location.

If you are interested to know more about my lineage, I have written and article about it in 2007 http://gkham.com/content/index.phpoption=com_content&task=view&id=29&Itemid=27 in rebuttal towards a certain writer mis-informed idea and history towards what San Yuan Lineage is truly about.

Often newbies are mistaken to think that San Yuan Feng Shui is the same as San Yuan Flying Star 三元飛星, San Yuan 三元in Flying Stars means Upper Period 上元，Middle Period 中元 and Lower Period 下元. 

San Yuan Flying Star is an off-shoot branch from San Yuan Di Li, using the combination of Later Heaven Ba Gua 后天八卦 as way of analyzing the events of a particular Feng Shui setup (if you don't know what I mean, don't worry, in simple terms it just means that San Yuan Feng Shui is NOT San Yuan Flying Star).

So what makes Chiang Mai city enjoying its good Feng Shui currently? It is the magnificent Broken Army Mountain 破軍山. As I have briefly explained, in San Yuan Feng Shui there is a strong emphasis on Timing. Meaning that even though landform formations may be good, it does have a timing to it. Whereas San He Feng Shui system does not place emphasis on this factor.

Chiang Mai Province most notable prosperity was 700 years ago, then it experienced a period of decline and in this 20 years or so, it has become prosperous again. Why?

In San Yuan Feng Shui, we classified Mountains/Landforms under 2 Periods which is Upper Period and Lower Period. Each period will last for 90 Years.Broken Army Mountain belongs to the Lower Period mountains 下元山， which will only exudes prosperous influence on Lower Period timings. Currently we are in the Lower Period until 2043. I believe it had also prosper in between all the Lower Periods in the past.

Then what happens in the Upper Period? Having a Lower Period landform in a Upper Period timing will only enhances its negative factors.
What are Broken Army Mountain's negative factor? Well as the name implies, some of its factor will include war, violence and brutality. If you research Northern Thailand's history, it has long conflicts with Burma (now known as Myanmar). Even elephants are used to engaged in the battles between 2 countries.
The Broken Army Mountain is also classified as a Metal Element. What makes Chiang Mai Broken Army mountain strong in Qi is also its location. It is located in the West side of the city. This fulfills part what we would call 9 Stars Return Landform Formation 九星歸位. However Chiang Mai only has 1 of the Mountain in the correct location, nevertheless its influence has made Chiang Mai now known as the Culture Centre of Thailand. Main economy for Chiang Mai is tourism, with approx 2 Million tourist a year.
 

Top View of Chiang Mai City. Image from Google Earth. Mountain is located on the West of the city.

Why would I say that it will prosperous until 2043, it is because Broken Army Mountain is also the governing mountain for all the Lower Period Mountains.

 

Photo taken from mid of the mountain at Doi Suthep Temple

Some would then ask, how come only the prosperity of Chiang Mai is evident now and not 30 years ago. The answer is because of 2 factors.

1. Upper and Lower Period does take some time for the landform to exudes strong influence. It is works as what we see on a Bell graph.
2. In previous Lower Period, it may have been more evident and faster, but now looking at flow of Maenam Ping (Ping River) that runs through the city, the flow is very slow. Faster flow increase in the Qi that runs through the city thereby increasing the hustle and bustle activities, however this itself, from my perspective is a blessing, as slower river means a more laid back lifestyle for local community. It also creates people who are more gentle in character and thought.

Overall, a great place to relax, shopping, enjoy the culture and also take in its mountain Feng Shui!

Double Dragon in Bangkok Chicken Rice Shop !

 Feng Shui for a business. Some like to say that it takes really complex formulas to setup a Feng Shui of a business. Is there any truth to the statement? Well the setup is not as difficult as finding the right location with the pre-requisite factor for a good setup.

I was supposed to write this article 2 years ago, but as usual workload and activities got the best of me.

The Kai Ton Chicken Rice Shop along Petchburi Soi 30 Bangkok, Thailand. This shop opens daily till 3 am in the morning. And the crowd is just amazing.

Photos from http://reviews.noobcook.com/kaiton-chicken-rice/

From the outlook, there is nothing attractive as it only has a usual stall with cooked chickens in front. The chicken rice is very tasty, but more amazing is that the Feng Shui that makes up the shop.

Simple layout of the Kai Ton Chicken Rice Shop

When I was there, after tasting the chicken rice, I have decided to check out what kind of setup that this shop has, that draws crowd in daily from 5:30 am early in the morning till 3:00am the next day!

The chicken rice of course has to taste good, but there must be good Feng Shui setup. If the Feng Shui setup is incorrect to my knowledge and still thriving, then I am the one who should go and re-learn Feng Shui because there should not be an inconsistency. Obviously the shop is having really good business by any standards.

I just turn on my digital compass on my mobile phone, stood outside the shop and looked to the right. The answer was very obvious. The shop have what we call a INTER-TWINE DOUBLE DRAGON Structure雙局龍. The Shop Face NORTH.

Screen Capture of my phone compass

INTER-TWINE DOUBLE DRAGON structure is when 2 direction brings in harmonious Qi that is RIGHT for the business. Therefore the crowd that it draws will be tremendous compared to any normal setup.

The shop does not need any fancy door alignment (there was no door for this shop anyway), water features or even correct water exits.

Flying Star fellas would like to search for double 88, double 77 etc. It has enjoyed good business for the past 50 years! There is no need as required in Flying Star to change door, change roof, change entrance. In fact if you use Flying Star system, you will need to go back to school as it does not match the criteria at all.

The structure in powerful and yet simple, but difficult to find in a cityscape shop house layout.

Feng Shui for a business we would ALWAYS need to create the setup of QI that is ideal for the element of the business. Too many 'consultants' got it wrong by creating a setup base on the owner of the business. That is using residential Feng Shui principle to do a business Feng Shui setup, which often times does NOT work!.

If you want to find out more about the shop and have a taste of their chicken rice visit the link below.

http://reviews.noobcook.com/kaiton-chicken-rice/

DESTINY, Your Friend or Enemy?

Every year there are thousands of youth who graduated from top universities and colleges. All with degrees in hand and ready to conquer the world.

Many don't subscribe to destiny and think that with bull head on, anything can be accomplish. Especially those with certain gift of 'speech', thinks that they can sell their dream to the world.

Fast forward 5-10 years, many would have been beaten by harsh reality of 'success' that was not taught in ivy league or by parent. You can't blame them, because they also don't realize and know. Some will take the pessimist approach, just hope that they can settle for a job that is lasting to be call a career. Some wonder what is missing? Still thinking it is some skill they need to get or acquired.

How come the guy/gal who was not very good in school today is sitting opposite them, interviewing and offering them a job? How and Why?

Did you ever asked those questions? What was your answer?

The Answer is the this big machinery or big 'giant' we call Destiny. The day you are born, it is already at work. Not totally controlling but definitely affecting your life in subtle ways. Those who excel in school, often think that it is entirely their own work. Therefore they have totally disregard destiny and luck.

Most parent would like to believe that hard work is the only thing that guarantees their child's future. They would spend thousands and thousands of hard earn money to enroll their toddler to IQ improving classes, Math improving classes and some even blow their credit card to buy all the latest brain improvement courses for their kid. All this while ignoring destiny.

Within school, when the child excels, slowly they too believe, that all the credit belongs to them entirely. When they child finally become a young adult. The word Destiny is totally wipe out from their mind. The only way to succeed in the world is by yourself and that piece of paper he/she deserved from many years in colleges and university.

Very soon, they would meet up with destiny face to face. Often times, its existence is only made known when they encounter failure upon failure in their job, in relationship and also when comparing with their friends or even next of kin.

Image from www.humanillness.com

Many will also choose the path to start their own business. Knowing in their heart that they are smarter, more hardworking and essentially better than others. When business fails to make a profit, the world provide so many factors, to attribute to the failure such as marketing, sales, how to make friends and contacts and the list goes on. Many would only shun, when the word of Destiny is even mentioned.

These are the same people that would pay big hefty sum of money for marketing and making their new business office looks nice and elegant, BUT stingy on the mention of hiring capable Feng Shui Master. When its time to wind up their business, then only they want to hire a capable Feng Shui consultant, at the same time complain about how they could not afford the high fees.

Some went on to their next business venture, digging further into their credit cards and also parent's life saving. Very sure the next one will be their success. Unknowingly, the next venture will also become a failure.

Is there no way to escape Destiny and its claw/palm?

All the examples that I mentioned above, are the character traits of those people have to fight to get where they are in life. And most of them think, that fighting with better weapons (self improvement courses, latest gadgets etc) towards this thing/entity called destiny, then they are likely to win in life.

The SECRET is ACCEPTANCE. If you have not accepted destiny's existence, you would never have a chance to use it to your favour. Just like the environment in Feng Shui, if you have not accepted its existence of the various elements, then you can never use it. However it will continue to affect you regardless whether you believe it or not.

Once when you accept there is this GIANT called Destiny, then you can make friends with it and it will become one of your strongest ally in life. It will be able to tell you in advance the bumps, obstacles, rock, trap and valley ahead in your life journey. No longer will you be walking like a blind person with sheer brute force, hoping to smash your way out of a jungle to reach your destination.

Image from the movie - Jack the Giant Slayer

Through Destiny, it will also customize a blue print for you. To search for what type of environment, what type of house and layout. That home that suits your destiny, will improve you luck day by day harnessing the energy of the environment that suits you instead of against you.

Some of my client make friends with their destiny very early in life, and they are able to end their career and business graciously. Some of them only meet up and accept destiny in their darkest moment in life, nevertheless once they accepted and begin to use it, they are improving beyond their dreams.

Some in their 50's only finally comprehend the existence of destiny, in that case I can only advise them to salvage whatever they can. Of course there are some people, whom in their whole life never need to think about Destiny because they can have all the money in the world, but when sickness knocks on the door, they too will ponder on its existence.

1. If you are in your early teen and able to comprehend this article. You are 10-20 years ahead of your peers.
2. If you are into business for sometime and are not making headway, maybe it is time to re-map your direction.
3. If you have met with much failure in life, then it high time you make friends with Destiny.
4. If you think none of what I am writing is true, keep this article, you may have to re-read when you meet up with it.

Image from www.whygamesmatter.com

My description may sound like a fairy tale. But I have been working with Destiny and many other's Destiny for the past decade....everyday.

Trusting the Wrong Consultant 2

Received a good news today. It so happens to be the lady that I've blogged about yesterday.

In my analysis, I adviced them that the window of opportunity to sell the business is Aug/Sept period or else they will have a real hard time to recover anything from their venture. And true enough they are able to sell it off. Rejoice ! rejoice !

Original article here:
http://gkhamconsulting.blogspot.com/2013/09/trusting-wrong-consultant.html

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Dear Master Ham,

First, thank you very much. We have managed to sell off our business n keeping our fingers cross that the payment will go thru. I just don't know how to thank you.

I had lost hope of ever selling d business as I had been advertising since May n there was no takers n even serious enquires. I was thinking just to pack up n rent out d place, again there wasn't any serious enquires. My workers left one after another (no matter how much I paid them) I was really at a loss as of what to do and I was hoping that what u predicted would come thru. I worked day n night, with 3 new workers running a 100pax restaurant and if there is not much customers, i could barely cope. When there is a crowd, i worked like a mad dog n went back home numb. To be very frank, I really could not see the light at d end of d tunnel n what kept me going was the hope that your words would one day come thru. Every night, I asked myself what am I going to do n tonight I finally can sleep soundly knowing I have finally found a way out to get my life back.

As we had plugged most of d leakages n its my hope that we could pull thru 2014 without much incident. And indeed when it is true that all is not lost now that I have found you.

Master, thank you. Beyond that I really do not know what else to say, again, THANK YOU.

I hope to see u in 2015.

Yours sincerely,

Trusting the Wrong Consultant

 I received an email in the beginning of this year from a lady. She informed me that she finally found my email and contact after she googled up her Feng Shui consultant's name on the web.

She has hired one of my student G to do audit for her home and also business. In fact it was a letter of complain and also asking for help. Because according to her, G had convinced them (both she and her husband) to find a shop lot, buy it and do business. And G literally guarantees them that the business would definitely prosper with the help of his Feng Shui skills.

In trusting G, they invested a substantial amount of money to start the restaurant business. Of course the end result did not turn out as G as promised. They are now having a hard time in getting customers, maintaining their staff and making enough to even service their bank loans.

The most IRONIC part of her situation, was that G have informed them that I am his Shi Xiong (師兄) which means both of us are the same generation of student under Master Lau. He did not informed the lady that I am his teacher.

To make things very clear.

1. I have NOT taught anyone in my 10 years of teaching Feng Shui, that they should convince their client to take a loan, invest their money beyond their means to start a business JUST because they could help their client find a suitable Feng Shui premise for their type of business.

2. If you are starting a business, your Feng Shui consultant should have advise you on your luck period and also upcoming yearly luck on whether you have the capability to start a business.

Just because

          your product is superior

          your are the sole distributor

you have years of experience in the market
you are a very good cook/chef – everyone says that you food taste like a piece of heaven

you have good taste for clothing and people would buy you selection
and the list goes on...

Does NOT mean a thing, when your luck is unable to support your business. When your major luck period is not suitable, the BEST Feng Shui can do is only to help you break-even. Because without the help of Feng Shui, the business would have to suffer early termination.

In her case, I tried to advice her and the 1^st thing that I have requested from her and her husband are their BaZi. I did not charge them anything, because they mentioned G was the starting point of their biggest nightmare.

I looked over their BaZi and informed them that if they still want to maintain the business, they must have the capability to sustain it beyond 2014. But coming 2014 will be year of great financial difficulty for them. So best option for them would be to sell the business while there is still value in it to ride it out if they can.

3. When you study in a good university, does everyone in the same graduating year end up serving their community? Good university provides good education – but in a graduating year, some becomes leader of their own community while there are also some that end up as criminal ! The university is not the problem but the people themselves. Just as in this case, G studied with me, San Yuan Feng Shui has 4 Level. ALL students that have studied with me maximum has only reached to LEVEL 3. In essence G has not even graduate yet.

Furthermore, he is lying to his client that I am his peer.

4. After teaching San Yuan Feng Shui for so many years. In each of their level, I have URGE the students, if they do have the resources and time, do learn up BaZi in our style. Because there are some differences in the way my REAL peers and Master Lau analyse BaZi compare to other schools which are more suitable to implement San Yuan Feng Shui. Unfortunately many students thinks that they already learn BaZi somewhere else and do not need to learn it anymore.

Even as recent as few weeks ago, this lady continues to email me, each time in her email she will write on her disgust, dissappointment and also strong frustration for being duped in by G to start her business. I have already advised her on her business and what she needs to do with it. When you major luck is not supporting, there are no 'cures' for it.

Moral of this case

1. Check the credentials of your Feng Shui Consultant.
2. Coming from a good school does not mean they have good ethics.
3. Before starting a business, check your own luck period for suitability (get a good BaZi consultant).
4. NO Feng Shui consultant can guarantee you would be profitable when your luck is not supporting. If they do guarantee, please turn around and RUN as fast as you could and hold your wallet really tight.
5. You should check for LUCK first before checking skills in starting a business. Many people act in opposite way.

Buddhism and Taoism - Are you confused?

Recently, a temple disciple asked me a question, he said his friend ask him 'You guys are a Taoist Temple, how come there is Buddhist rituals and also Tibetan Buddhist rituals during your Animal Liberation activities ?'

Many who are not familiar with either religion, Taoist and Buddhist will always take a separatist stand or view. It is like a choosing a political view, its either you are right or left. Some un- informed Buddhist with 'Divine Child Syndrome' or what we call 'I am better than thou' attitude will view that Taoist is lower and Buddhist is higher. Some un-informed Taoist will have renegade attitude and think that Taoist Deities are closer and grant our every request more easily.

Both views are mistaken.

Highest Taoist Cultivation is 大罗金仙 Da Luo Jin Xian, a state where you will surpass death and re-birth, the ability to manipulate your body 5 Elements and transform it into light and therefore one with the Dao 道.

This stage of cultivation is also known as Full Rainbow Body in Vajrayana. Which means when the person dies, his (it can be a she also) body turns into white light and glow of rainbow surrounds him, after which the physical body dissappear and only clothes and some parts of nail will remain. It is a manifestation that the cultivator have reached enlightment.

As you can see, the end goal of cultivators is the same for Taoism and also Buddhism. To surpass death and rebirth – samsara. But before we go too far and high up on our standards we must know how to gather merits to be able reach it. Without merits, nothing can be accomplished !

Many do not even know how to differentiate between karma and merit, but they are quick to jump on others when they see what they think is a mix and match. Below is my explanation to the Taoist Disciple.

From a Buddhism perspective, our Taoist Deities are our Protector 护法 in our cultivation in reaching Enlightment, Animal Liberation is a way for us to gather Merit (公德）or on a lower level Good Karma （福报）. During our Animal Liberation, we are doing 2 process at 1 go.

1. Name that have been written on the Biao Wen 表文list is being burn (submitted) to KDS Deities, to gather good karma for those people that have join the animal liberation.

2.At the same time, we chant Namgyalma mantra (Zhun Sheng Fo Mu) on the water and spray to the animal in hope that they obtain better rebirth in their next life - that is according to Buddhism - also we chant for mantras during our circumbulation - is to invite Buddhas and Boddhisatvas to grant their blessings to those fishes also in hope that they will obtain better rebirth.

If we just do the Taoist section, then all of us would only obtain good karma. That is also presuming you have a good request in your heart - better health, good relationship, good finance etc. If the person who went for animal liberation but inside their heart they request for bad luck on their enemies, sickness on the people they don't like, then in fact they will obtain a bad karma by requesting such action from Taoist Deities.

Karma affects everyone and all beings in any dimension.

Good karma can be use up. That is why it is consider a lower level good deed.

Our rebirth as human is also due to the balance of good and bad karma that we have gather in our many lifetimes in samsara. Changes of our luck also indicates, when our Good or Bad Karma will ripen. When the good ripen, we experience as good childhood, high study, good job, loyal spouse enter into a profitable business. When the bad karma ripens, we experience sickness, bad living conditions, failure of business, failure of marriage, Bad children etc.

Good and Bad Karma are constantly ripening, while we are also constantly creating them whether consciously or unconsciously. However good karma will not ensure that your next rebirth will be human or higher realms in samsara such as Deities etc. Only gathering of merits will ensure that you have a good rebirth in your next life. Therefore good karma is only very small compare to merits.

How do we distinguish good karma and merit? It is in your intention of your action.

1.When you do something for the benefit of yourself only - meaning better job, more money in life, successful business - and your intention is to benefit self - then your are USING UP your good karma.

2. When you do something good and HOPE that you can become better in your life situation or obtain something to benefit yourself - then you are creating only good karma for yourself and it is used up once you see improvement.

3. When you do something good, without any thought of self and purely in the hope that others will benefit THEN ONLY YOU ARE CREATING MERIT.

Why merit? Merit cannot be used up and it will follow you in your every rebirth until you achieve enlightment, Merit will constantly produce good karma in your every rebirth to help you in reaching enlightment. By being in KDS is also the result of your previous accumulated merit in your past lives to be able to be here as group to do something useful to benefit others.

While those new members that come to temple, we hope that they can create as much good karma as possible, when they see their life improve then they will start to accept in karma and merits and gather good merits instead.

While a person can create many many good karma, and in this lifetime they experience all the good karma and good conditions in life. However there is no guarantee their next life will experience the same comfort.

Can the same action produce either karma or merit? YES.

For example, when people come to join our animal liberation - if the intention of the organizer is to gather merit, even if those people who come and have request to obtain something, meaning they will only have good karma, it will also turn into merit. This is because the organization that is doing it is doing it CORRECTLY, therefore they have a higher benefit.

If KDS is built up for personal gains or personal intention, then whatever that is done will only gather good karma and not merits. Because the start is already due to personal gain.
If KDS is built up based on the sole purpose to benefit others and more people, then the whole organization is constantly gathering merits to benefit its member.

Then the next question is - When you are in the KDS contributing, are you thinking for the benefit of yourself or in hope that it can benefit others? Then that will also determine your presence in KDS is for exchange of good karma or to gather merit.
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Rest assured for those who frequent Kam Dong San Temple. I am not half baked cultivator who are filling in the activity when there is a gap. As a Taoist, I have the full lineage of 六壬伏英館 up to 五雷教 and also lineage 風火院. In my sworn oath into Tao Fa 道法, there will be no money requested and earn on personal basis in performing any Taoist rituals or help. In Vajrayana, I have kept and keeping full samaya with my teachers and lamas.

We are only helping you gain more merit in a single action....that however will depend on your karma and merit to join us in our activity! 大顯威靈. Om Mani Padme Hung !

Selecting Date of Birth for Babies

Received an email last evening asking me to select date for twins. I have written a long explanation to Mr and Mrs Lee explaining why they should let nature takes it's course. I am sharing with readers of this blog so that you can understand in detail the consideration for birth date selection.

Here's my unedited reply:

Dear Mr and Mrs Lee,

First of all congratulations on your incoming son and daughter. Wow ! Both at once must be a real blessings.

I have ceased to do any date selection for new born since 5 years ago. I would only do for close clients that could have possible critical situations concerning the mother during delivery.

As you know, I am practicing Buddhist and Taoist Practitioner.

Child come into this world due to their affinity with their parent in their previous life. Whether it is good karmic ties or unfavorable karmic ties, due to the relationship only they will come into this world in this lifetime as your child.

In essence you would also need to have the ideal background (economic condition whether good or bad, husband and wife relationship etc) ,  to fit into their childhood and adult karma.

 As a Feng Shui consultant, I will select an ideal date for the baby- the first and foremost consideration is having the ideal 10 years luck period. There are few conditions that come into analysis. As human beings, only 10% of people would have consecutive two to three 10 years good luck period and about 5% of the population will have consecutive  four to five 10 years good luck period.

Then the consideration comes into the analysis

1. If a person have really good luck period during their early childhood, then they would have lots of toys and grow up in a above average family background. Meaning that before or after their birth, the family would have improvement in their economic condition to MATCH their early childhood luck. However when they reach their 30's or 40's, in time that they need luck the most - they will not have it because they already enjoyed it in their early life.

2. If I select a person to have fantastic luck in their 30's and 40's, then it means that their early childhood must be average or below average luck. To have a REAL CONTRAST between early childhood and adult luck, usually early childhood would be very quite 'bitter' to have that huge impact rise in mid adult life. That would also means that if the child has that luck period, before or after birth - the family economic condition would also need to reflect and MATCH his/her childhood hardship.

Then the ultimate question goes back to the parent - Does the parent wants the child to enjoy childhood luck that would better affect the parent in their children's childhood? or are they willing to endure some setbacks to sacrifice for their child's midlife good luck?

3. If during that period of selection, there is a day that would enable a baby to have consecutive 4 - 5 (10 Years Luck Period), 99.5% of the time, the baby that I have selected that favorable time would be born either one or more days earlier. Why? To have such a good luck in their lifetime, parent would also need to have the right karmic background and economic condition to have such a child. And most important of all, they would need to have very favorable ancestors grave (Yin Feng Shui) to support such a destiny.


After the general luck and destiny, the second consideration is relationship.

1. Some days that favors good luck period, may not favor good relationship with spouse. Then parent's have to decide, they want a capable son who go through many marriages in life or capable daughters in their career but can't seem to find Mr. Right. Of course I am generalising here in my examples, as there could be many more considerations factors or scenario that we could encounter base on the time-frame for birth.

Finally or most important about Health.

If we select a date that does not have much up or down in their destiny in order for the person to have average health throughout their life. Which also means luck wise is average throughout whole life.

Furthermore in your case, a boy and a girl born each year would have their luck ELEMENTS (5 Elements) arrange in reverse order. Days that favors a male luck arrangement sometimes would not favor so much a female born on that day. Therefore it adds on, more complexity and consideration to the selection.

In conclusion, I would suggest to you just let nature takes it course.

As parent, our main priority is to ensure that we as providers for our child, would be able to provide them with the best education, time and most all love in their lifetime. Thus we need to USE Feng Shui to balance our own destiny, so that we can have the edge in our economic circumstances to have the time for them. Also also use Feng Shui to avoid the possible health causes that are caused by the environment. If we want to leave something permanent to our children and grandchildren, then pre-select a good Yin Feng Shui ground so that all generations in the future can reap our decision we make while we still are here.

I wish you all the best in receiving your boy and girl soon. Having twins is already a blessing, furthermore a boy and girl. You will be alright!

Warmest regards

GK Ham