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Common mis-conception that some people might have, just because I am good at telling a person when they will likely fall sick and with what problem regarding health, some might have the mistaken idea that as long I can name it or tell it then they can avoid it totally by just knowing about it from my mouth.

Another misconception that I have recently got to know is that, some might think as long as Feng Shui was done on a house, the person in the household would not have cancer health problem. This point need some time to explain and for your to read.

Regarding dangerous sickness and terminal desease, there are 2 factors from a Chinese Metaphysic perspective.

1. Terminal desease already clearly indicated on your destiny chart. This means that when you live up to a certain age, without a strict overview on your diet and lifestyle, the person will be diagnose of cancer or some other illness that are caused by the imbalance of element within their destiny chart.

2. Sickness and desease are not clearly evident on their destiny chart BUT the enviroment setup is wrong and contributes to the imbalance of element in the individual's surrounding. This will then cause sickness to the person who has been exposed to the imbalance in the long term.

Cancer Cells

I have had cases of person diagnosed with cancer, their chart is not evident of the sickness and after audit and rectification, the sickness is under controlled. But does that mean, they could just throw their new anti-cancer diet out of the window? NO, because once your body have develop the ability to mutate its cell, then the person need to have strict control of their diet for rest of their life.

If your house was audited by me, I will do everything to make sure that the environment and feng shui setup does not go wrong in a way that would create the imbalance in the person's body for them to end up with dangerous sickness or terminal desease.

However, if your destiny chart already clearly indicates that cancer or some other sickness such as heart failure in this life journey, the house feng shui setup the best it can do is to minimize the impact. The other part of the prevention comes from your of strict upkeep of life style and diet to lower the possibility even more.

Those client and friends that know me personally are aware that I do not drink or smoke and don't indulge in food that will cause health problems. Why? I know when and what will eventually kill me, how fast it will happen if I do not keep a healthy lifestyle. This means that I did everything I possibly could on my environment and at the same time, I am not bragging about I can eat anything I like, abuse my body to max and yet nothing will happen just because I know Feng Shui and read destiny well.

For all clients that have asked me to audit their house Feng Shui, I would recommend them to request for me to analyse their destiny every year if not every 2 years. House Setup is correct, but the person's destiny changes every year, and every 5 years a medium change. If sickness or terminal desease is on the horizon, we can detect the possibility early on the destiny analysis and then go for medical test and advice.

Did you know that a piano for example, even if you don't play it, every 6 months to a year, you would need to ask a professional to tune it ? As it will be out of tune due to weather, humidity etc. Imagine, what about a person's destiny? We make conscious and unconscious decisions that affects our health and all other aspects of our life everyday.

Some would then ask me, "wouldn't it be better for you to tell me when I will have dangerous sickness or cancer early, so I can take preventive measures" Imagine on one of your happiest moment in your life of moving into a new house and this Feng Shui Master comes around and tell you in 10 years time you would be diagnose with a certain life changing illness.

Even if you have a very remote possibility of a particular sickness appearing on your destiny, just by worrying and constantly remind yourself about the future sickness would be a sure GUARANTEE that you will get it due to self fulfilling principle. My master taught me in Destiny Analysis always must have 口德 Kou De or aware of what comes out of my mouth , speak things that can generate good merits instead of speak things that will cause demerit of karma.

Now you know, Feng Shui Master also have possibility of developing cancer, get sick and have a short life.
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Why FIXED Investment Income Company will fail you

Few days back another so called 'brokerage' with many clients who used copy trade system experienced an account wipeout over night. This is just the latest incident starting from beginning of May - JJPTR closure and a host of self claimed fixed investment income company that bit the bullet.

Here are link to the news of some of the companies that received the limelight

http://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2017/05/16/jjptrs-johnson-lee-arrested/

http://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2017/04/29/more-forex-schemes-are-falling-apart-members-fail-to-receive-profit-on-time-as-promised/

Companies that offer fixed income for investment in Malaysia and some even regionally. This list below are the ones that are either have gone bust, owner skip town, failure to give return, change the investment rules or all of the above (these are only companies within April and May, should be more by the time this article is published.

1. JJPTR
2. BSV 
3. Richway 
4. CYL 
5. Paramount 
6. Evergreen 
7. Visfuture 
8. GMFX 
9. GD 
10. Gaming 339
11. WVC 
12. TRF 
13. PDM 
14. Afx 
15. KKC 
16. CMGFIC 
17. CG International 
18. Dreamwayz
19. The Royal Club 
20. GSR 
21. Wealth Venture Capital 
22. Paramout 8888 
23. GYC 
24. The Richlist Club 
25. MKT
26. CCB
27. SunBestt
28. WMS
29. True Life
30. AC Global

All of these companies have the same MO (modus operandi). You invest a certain amount of money and they promise you a fixed return monthly for your investment. Let's just for a moment, we give these companies benefit of the doubt and not label them as Ponzi Schemes. Why from a Destiny point of view that these companies would ultimately fail?

And before you read on, I would like to add, if the company minimum investment is very low then there a higher chance of it go bust in a very short time. Looking and analysing it from destiny view point.

Let's get down to the logic from Chinese Metaphysics.

Each person have a different set of destiny and also accompanied by different luck period.

Although money is not everything in our modern world, without money a lot of things cannot be accomplished. And ability to earn money or to accumulate wealth does tie in with your good luck period. Most of us live in a materialistic society, hence to have the ability to acquire what you need and wants requires money.

When you are in a good or average luck period, sources of income comes much more easily. When you are in below average or bad luck period, then sources of income could be affected, the person could be sick and not being able to earn an income. 

Then here comes the growing numbers of companies offering a fixed income / fixed percentage of return based on the amount you invest. Starting as low as usd100. These companies on average are offering 10%-35% per month. If you understand the power of compounding, provided they are the real deal, practically everyone who invested would earn a decent amount of monthly income.

Let's not think about reliability or whether it is scam. If these companies are able to sustain more than 5 years then the graph of all those who invested would be as below

Everyone's luck period or more specifically financial luck would be equal. Is that possible? Yes in a Utopian world, definitely. In a materialistic driven society, the answer is definitely no. There is a theory that, given the amount of wealth in our planet today. If we were to gather it all, and redistribute it to all. Each person would be a millionaire. Instant total elimination of poverty and societal problems that derives from unequal distribution of wealth. Is there a possibility of it happening? You and me knows the answer very well.

This is followed by, even if everyone is a millionaire on this planet, within a very short time period, majority of the wealth would go back to those 10% individuals whom have high net worth before the distribution. Why? From economics and psychology, its the marketing, inherent characters and also beliefs on money. From a Destiny perspective, different people have different luck periods.

Coming back to the Fixed Income Investment, now from the above explanation, it is very logical to derive the conclusion that why these companies will fail.

Why would it fail faster if the investment amount is smaller? Because it attracts a large segment of society, when you have a large group the discrepancies of luck levels are even higher, therefore making it arriving at its ultimate doom and fail even faster.

After this, if someone offer you a high compounding monthly return for your money, please forward them this article.

IPO also depends on your destiny....

After more than 10 years in the industry and clients from all types of industries, there's bound to be some stories or incidents worth sharing. I'm going to start the week with a case that relates to IPO.

About more than 6 years back, one of my client asked me whether the company he is working for will be able to go for public listing. I took a look at the partners involved and told him, either they make the move within these 2 years or the window will be lost forever.

About close to 2 years after he asked me, he told me he relayed my analysis to the group of consultants that were helping them for the listing exercise. The group told him, if such outcome can be determine by BaZi alone, then all of them don't have to spend many years in their specialized finance field.

And my client further told me they plan to list their company maybe a year or 2 later.

After another 2 years they totally drop the listing idea. A key director passed away, while others have since resigned.

The moral of the story is not about the accuracy of my analysis, but timing - The Macro Timing and also the relation to a person's destiny. History have taught us that many individuals with incredible skills and wits but somehow did not amount to much due to lack of chance. What is chance? Timing with the prepared skills. Do you know when to cash in? When to cash out? When to stay still and when to go all out?

Feng Shui Setup or Spiritual Help which is the Priority?

Received a call from a long time client about 3 weeks ago. He told me that he is now experiencing hard times. He have just moved the 4th times to an office. His first and 2nd office was audited by me. Currently his business also cannot make enough to pay for his staff salary. He has no where to turn to except trying his luck to ask for my help.

When I audited his business office, he made decent profit and business was growing. That was the condition he was in when I last met him. He did not engage me on his 3rd time moving, and to me that was normal because maybe he finds that luck was on his side and my services was not needed anymore.

I have decided to helped him out due to his past standing as good client. He told me he cannot afford to pay my fees however he will be willing to pay me once he is stable again.
Cleared my appointment on the nearest availability and decided to audit his place as fast as possible.

When I arrived on to audit his current office, the first thing I noticed was there was quite a number of Taoist spiritual implements inside his office. I checked the site with my Loupan and discovered that the front door location and direction is actually not bad for his type of business.

However once inside, all the Feng Shui setup was wrong. From his sitting location, his staff sitting location, enhancing the qi for the type of business plus even the water exits within is all not conducive for his business.

No wonder he is in such a mess.  His personal space within the office has a lot of Taoist spiritual implements from sword to flags to even ancient chinese coins below the desk and a whole lot more.

I advised him to relocate those spiritual items, consolidate some of it while others that cannot be use to be place in storage. He looked at me with a puzzling look. I am not surprised, because in all those years of him knowing me and conducted 2 audits for his office, never once did I mentioned to him about using spiritual implements nor about my Taoist background.

Seeing his puzzling look, I knew if I did not elaborate on my Taoist background he was not going to remove those items. I continue to explained to him that one of the talisman which he painstakingly went to a South Thailand Taoist Temple to obtain is actually one of my Taoist lineage. I further briefly informed him on 2 more Taoist lineage that I am holding, and the reason spiritually why he should relocate those items and consolidate them.

I always believe, if a Feng Shui Master is good at what he is doing, he does not need to use other fields of knowledge to solve the Feng Shui problem. Example, adding spiritual context into solving a Feng Shui problem. On the other hand, if a Taoist Master is good at what he is doing, he does not need to add Feng Shui into solving spiritual matters. Using spiritual method alone will be able to solve the spiritual problems.

Furthermore, I do not like to confuse my client on who are they actually hiring, The Feng Shui Master or the Taoist Master? If in doubt, usually I assure them that you are hiring a practical logical Feng Shui Master who have strong Taoist religious belief. This rarely happen because 90% of my client knows me as a Feng Shui master or practitioner only.

After advicing on the recommendations, finally I gave him some talisman to solve his existing pressing business problem. Because to wait for the Feng Shui setup to run its course requires at least 10 days in which the time he does not have at the moment. Told him the spiritual help is pro-bono but make sure he pays my Feng Shui due fees when he is ok again.

Moral of the story -
1. Remember your Feng Shui Master when you are having a good run.
2. Spiritual methods will work once your environment setup is done correctly. Or else the spiritual help will be like trying to push a heavy cart uphill, you cannot continuously use spiritual method to solve a basic Feng Shui environmental mistake.
3. Remember your Feng Shui Master when you are having a good run. (its not a typo repeat)

How to Survive Bad Financial Times with Destiny Analysis and Feng Shui......

Majority of us are feeling the impact of bad financial times in Malaysia. Various impact including devaluation of currency result in more narrow scope of opportunity in most sectors and field.

If you are student of Chinese Metaphysics then undoubtedly the first thing you have to learn is there is a cycle to everything in the universe. There is no permanent bad times or good times. The key is what to do in each of those times.

As the country and location that a person is situated would already be affected by the location luck ie bad economic times. Nothing we can change about that.

First and foremost for survival is to know where you are in your luck range. Whether the coming 3 years is BAD, AVERAGE or GOOD. To know that you need to be able to look at your own destiny chart 八字 4 Pillars. Check on your 10 years luck, then with the information apply it on the coming 3 individual years personal luck.

If 10 Years Luck is GOOD but yearly luck is bad then the most is AVERAGE 

If 10 Years Luck is GOOD but yearly luck is AVERAGE then the most is ABOVE AVERAGE

If 10 Years Luck is GOOD and yearly luck is GOOD then it will be GOOD no matter how the economy turn out. 

If 10 Years Luck is BAD but yearly luck is GOOD, then the most is AVERAGE and surviving.

If 10 Years Luck is BAD and yearly luck is AVERAGE then the most is BELOW AVERAGE.

If 10 Years Luck is BAD and yearly luck is also BAD, then most of anything unfavourable will happen to you such as losing job, changing job and getting worst each time and also facing tremendous financial difficulty.

If after checking and your luck overall is GOOD or ABOVE AVERAGE, you have nothing to worry about. You will definitely ride through the storm, perhaps even a good time for investment, pick up a few fundamentally strong stocks or properties.

The following article is for those who are AVERAGE, BELOW AVERAGE or BAD. How to survive the coming period.

1. Make sure your house Feng Shui is audited accordingly. When good economic times, the overall luck situation of your surrounding economy can support you even if your luck is below average. For example, in a village where the crops are growing in abundant, nobody will die of hunger even if they are lazy or cannot work. Some neighbours would be willing to give you some to survive.

If you are in a village that is experiencing extreme weathers, nobody will have any spare food for you. That's what I mean in surrounding economy. 

2. Make sure you do not do any new investments when your luck is AVERAGE and below during this time. One movement or jerk and you will be on the losing end. Good Luck people made smart decisions and Average Luck people or Below Average Luck people made the smart decision at the wrong time!

3. If you are in business, put your business into survival instinct now matter how big or steady your company is perceived to be. When you are in AVERAGE luck and operating a company in Bad Financial Times, it is like a boat sailing towards the rough seas with faulty compass.

4. If you are an employee, with AVERAGE luck ahead. Forget about the grass is greener on the other side. It is all a fantasy that only exist in your mind. Any changes you make in your career will be a regretful move. Stay put, check on how you can be more of value to your existing company so that you will not be on the 'let go' list when push comes to shove.

5. If you are thinking of starting a business with AVERAGE luck. I have a list of charitable organization that you can donate towards that will not only increase your spiritual merits but saves you the headache of watching your startup burning up all your hard earn or borrowed cash in the new 'venture'

6. If your luck is BAD for the coming 3 years. Lay low if you are an employee, add value to your work. Be prepared for any worst possibility in your career. Save up for 3 to 6 months worth of your own salary. Make sure you do not do any renovation at your existing home due to your fancy or own instinct of how things should be, because 99% of the time you will make it worst.

Knowing where you are, strong survival game plan and you are ahead of 90% of those people who do not even know that luck cycle exist.

It's ALL Element Play

I thought I never need to write basic Feng Shui articles anymore, as Feng Shui is so popular around the world today. Just go to any nearby book store and you will have a section of books dedicate to this subject - all basic ones of course. Nevertheless a good start for all beginners.

What inspired me to write this posting was that I have read somewhere in the main stream media ad that only certain branch of Chinese Metaphysics have direct correlation between Feng Shui and also Destiny. This off course is not true, why some people may be led to believe so, is because mainstream Feng Shui writers like to separate out destiny reading and feng shui. 

They have not been taught that all of this knowledge is supposed to be linked up. However some school of thought linked it up to become a very powerful leverage to help on a person's destiny while some school sort of try to fit a square peg into a round hole (keep on pushing it and make a mess). It is like Fusion Food. I like Tomyam Spaghetti, but please don't ask me to try Peanut Butter with Tuna on a bread !

If you know Chinese Metaphysics really well or study in depth on each of the subjects from Face Reading 面相 to Oracle卜卦 to Feng Shui 風水 to BaZi 八字 / ZiWei 紫薇 to Qi Men Dun Jia 奇門遁甲. All of it deals with the 5 Elements. The basic is the 5 Elements, the highest learning is also interaction of the 5 elements. If it is something beyond 5 Elements then it is NOT Chinese Metaphysics.

What does 5 Elements do? It categorize or simplify the characteristics of the Qi or what you call Energy. And all branches of Chinese Metaphysics talk about achieving balance. When you have balance, not only it looks nice, it sounds perfect and everything moves smoothly.

When we discuss about Human Destiny - humans naturally are affected by Qi, whether reaching balance in their destiny, achieving balance of qi in their body's 5 main organs or harnessing the suitable Qi from the environment to aid them in their luck periods. 

When we read a person's destiny, what is their potential, what is their fall back, what are weakest genetic link - all this have to do with the 5 element balance in their destiny chart. When I do Feng Shui consultation for my clients, I then use the information of their destiny chart and try to do a setup in their environment to harness the qi that will help balance their destiny to avoid all the fall back and support their destiny and luck periods.

I don't do House Feng Shui - meaning find the best way to decorate their house according to House Feng Shui Principles. 

I help my clients do a setup of Qi in their environment, advice them on where to tap the Qi that best suit their type of destiny and also the goal that they are trying to achieve. Therefore each person or family is different. Same house with different people will be different advice.

Destiny here means their Four Pillars of Destiny or 八字. Other systems are only interested in Year of Birth to convert to a GUA Trigam. That you can do in a DIY setting. No need to hire Feng Shui Master.

Because of the mass conventional materials that is out there, writers who have never made the link or never been taught that it is supposed to be linked. This concept becomes alien and 'unconventional' to many newbies.

When I do Yin Feng Shui － Feng Shui for burial ground or columbarium selection, the crucial key other than finding good landforms is whether the element it harness will be suitable for the later generations of my client. Their children's destiny requirement and also the timing to harness the qi.

Even in Qi Men Dun Jia 奇門遁甲，the highest essence is the ability to linked it with a person's destiny. How to chase after qi that is suitable to you. Not just basic favourable and unfavourable location base on conventional Qi Men knowledge that are in books.

From the 十天干 Heavenly Stems， 地支 Earth Branches, 八卦 Ba Gua correlation with 5 Elements 五行 in all Chinese Metaphysics subject is denotating the same 5 Elements - there is no such thing as 5 elements for Feng Shui is different from 5 elements of destiny OR 5 elements of Yin Feng Shui is different from 5 Elements on your face for Face Reading.

Finally, if you have understood this point and looking at the linkage instead of the difference, it all comes down to element play.

Selecting Date of Birth for Babies

Received an email last evening asking me to select date for twins. I have written a long explanation to Mr and Mrs Lee explaining why they should let nature takes it's course. I am sharing with readers of this blog so that you can understand in detail the consideration for birth date selection.

Here's my unedited reply:

Dear Mr and Mrs Lee,

First of all congratulations on your incoming son and daughter. Wow ! Both at once must be a real blessings.

I have ceased to do any date selection for new born since 5 years ago. I would only do for close clients that could have possible critical situations concerning the mother during delivery.

As you know, I am practicing Buddhist and Taoist Practitioner.

Child come into this world due to their affinity with their parent in their previous life. Whether it is good karmic ties or unfavorable karmic ties, due to the relationship only they will come into this world in this lifetime as your child.

In essence you would also need to have the ideal background (economic condition whether good or bad, husband and wife relationship etc) ,  to fit into their childhood and adult karma.

 As a Feng Shui consultant, I will select an ideal date for the baby- the first and foremost consideration is having the ideal 10 years luck period. There are few conditions that come into analysis. As human beings, only 10% of people would have consecutive two to three 10 years good luck period and about 5% of the population will have consecutive  four to five 10 years good luck period.

Then the consideration comes into the analysis

1. If a person have really good luck period during their early childhood, then they would have lots of toys and grow up in a above average family background. Meaning that before or after their birth, the family would have improvement in their economic condition to MATCH their early childhood luck. However when they reach their 30's or 40's, in time that they need luck the most - they will not have it because they already enjoyed it in their early life.

2. If I select a person to have fantastic luck in their 30's and 40's, then it means that their early childhood must be average or below average luck. To have a REAL CONTRAST between early childhood and adult luck, usually early childhood would be very quite 'bitter' to have that huge impact rise in mid adult life. That would also means that if the child has that luck period, before or after birth - the family economic condition would also need to reflect and MATCH his/her childhood hardship.

Then the ultimate question goes back to the parent - Does the parent wants the child to enjoy childhood luck that would better affect the parent in their children's childhood? or are they willing to endure some setbacks to sacrifice for their child's midlife good luck?

3. If during that period of selection, there is a day that would enable a baby to have consecutive 4 - 5 (10 Years Luck Period), 99.5% of the time, the baby that I have selected that favorable time would be born either one or more days earlier. Why? To have such a good luck in their lifetime, parent would also need to have the right karmic background and economic condition to have such a child. And most important of all, they would need to have very favorable ancestors grave (Yin Feng Shui) to support such a destiny.


After the general luck and destiny, the second consideration is relationship.

1. Some days that favors good luck period, may not favor good relationship with spouse. Then parent's have to decide, they want a capable son who go through many marriages in life or capable daughters in their career but can't seem to find Mr. Right. Of course I am generalising here in my examples, as there could be many more considerations factors or scenario that we could encounter base on the time-frame for birth.

Finally or most important about Health.

If we select a date that does not have much up or down in their destiny in order for the person to have average health throughout their life. Which also means luck wise is average throughout whole life.

Furthermore in your case, a boy and a girl born each year would have their luck ELEMENTS (5 Elements) arrange in reverse order. Days that favors a male luck arrangement sometimes would not favor so much a female born on that day. Therefore it adds on, more complexity and consideration to the selection.

In conclusion, I would suggest to you just let nature takes it course.

As parent, our main priority is to ensure that we as providers for our child, would be able to provide them with the best education, time and most all love in their lifetime. Thus we need to USE Feng Shui to balance our own destiny, so that we can have the edge in our economic circumstances to have the time for them. Also also use Feng Shui to avoid the possible health causes that are caused by the environment. If we want to leave something permanent to our children and grandchildren, then pre-select a good Yin Feng Shui ground so that all generations in the future can reap our decision we make while we still are here.

I wish you all the best in receiving your boy and girl soon. Having twins is already a blessing, furthermore a boy and girl. You will be alright!

Warmest regards

GK Ham

Ba Zi Sexual Compatibility PART 1

About more than a decade(10 years) ago, in my previous life I was a Professional Behaviour Analyst – doing profiling for companies especially sales employees. Checking on their suitability for selling. What's their style of selling and how to match them to the customers of a particular corporation.

Then when I learned about Ba Zi – One of the Chinese System of Destiny Analysis and there was no turning back. Not only can I profile a person on their behaviour, but also what is likely to happen in their near future, with the information on their current character traits.

The best thing abot Ba Zi when it comes to profiling a sales person, is that I can know whether the person can or cannot sell, irregardless of their skills and for how long they could be at the top. This is something conventional profiling cannot do. In another sense, it is discrimination at its highest covert level. Then again, the sole purpose of a business is to make the most money with the least resource – that is Management 101.

Ba Zi does not only help in business but also it can profile personality match of couples. People fall in love and stay in love is also due to the compatibility of their Ba Zi. He has something she needs and she wants something he has on a Qi Level.

If we magnify even further, Ba Zi can also profile a couple's sexual match. Yes folks, my blog is intended for mature readers. Statistics have shown that more than 50% of couple that went for divorce is due to sexual incompatibility. More so in the Western society. In Asian society, divorce rate is lower but affairs of marriage couple is almost the same.

Ba Zi would be able to tell, whether someone is highly sexual, moderate or totally impotence/frigid. We can also tell whether that person is mentally impotence/frigid or it is a medical condition. Ba Zi would also be able to give clues whether a married person would act on sexual impulse ie. Having many affairs or it is all in the head only.

Drastic changes of luck period would also sometimes change a person's sexual preference, from heterosexual to homosexual. It explains why some people who are heterosexual, would in some stage of their life discover that they are homosexual. It is true for male and female.

Some women, who are highly conservative in their early luck periods can become sexually promiscious when their luck changes. We may think that all this is happening on a emotional level, or the person have got themselves involve with bad company. However, it is always the changes on the Qi level of their destiny that triggers the behavioural pattern. And once the behaviour is repeated, new neural pathways form in their brain, beliefs develop and changes of character happened.

It explains on why some men/women, totally caught by surprise that their other half would cheat on them – since they know that the person they are married to is not someone who is sexually promiscous. Changes of luck periods causes sexual incompatibility, qi incompatibility – peach blossom is activated in a particular year that brings a strong peach blossom then we are 'suddenly' caught by surprise. In actual fact, all the clues are there the moment they are born. 

Then the crucial questions is “Do we tell our clients?” Some consultants who are not tactful in their analysis will tend to tell it like it is or worst exaggerate the condition to create a sense of reliance. My way is that, I sealed up all the available peach blossom in their environment. Tell them about their character outlook and possible luck and peach blossom encounters.

No, we don't touch on the sexual compatibility issues unless one of the couple highlights it or seek analysis and further rectification methods. The irony is that, it could be one of their biggest problem in marriage but it is also a problem that you can openly discuss. If they are single and ask about compatibility – I would just tell it like it is.

When doing placement of bed toward their favorable Ba Zi location, we would also consider both of their character traits and the effects of enhancement. If we just place according to what they need individually, on most cases it would not benefit them as a couple.

A little bit of knowledge can be very dangerous.

Yesterday, one of my relatives called me up in the afternoon, asked me to join him for tea with one of his friend from mainland China. According to my relative, this person also has an interest in Chinese Metaphysics. Having a couple of hours to spare before bringing my kids to play outdoor, I decided to meet this person.

When I met Mr. Leung (in his late 40’s), he told me he is from Hong Kong but now residing in Shanghai. My relative decide to de-tour to his newly bought condominium, I thought he was showing Mr. Leung some investment opportunities in Penang.

When we arrived at the condo building, my relative said “both of you can help check out the Feng Shui of my new place.” Mr Leung said he did not bring his compass. My relative point to me and said he got it in his phone. I reluctantly bring out my iPhone and check the reading. Mr Leung was very surprised with capability of the iPhone (in my daily work, I still use the Luo Pan, I think clients would not pay me my high fees if they see me using iPhone to do audit).

I decided not to say anything about the Feng Shui of his condo, because I am not working and it is a de-tour scenario. And when we got back in the car, Mr. Leung start to ask me some background questions about Feng Shui, the conversation goes something like this

Mr. Leung: How did you study Feng Shui?, you study it yourself from books?

GK Ham: I study under Grandmaster Lau on San Yuan Feng Shui. San He under two different master, and QMDJ from Master Ho in Hong Kong.

Mr Leung : Oh, San Yuan, you use Xuan Gong Flying Star?

GK Ham: No we don’t use Flying Star. Mainly San Yuan.

Mr. Leung: So San Yuan, you subscribe to the principle of changing to period 8 on 2004?

GK Ham: Actually we are not worried about the period. We are more concern about what is the qi structure of the property, exit of qi of the property and using Useful God in BaZi to match with the person’s allocation.

Mr. Leung: Then do you meddle with Ba Zi.

GK Ham: Of course.

Mr. Leung: It is actually good you have studied about San He. So that you can have a more broader outlook on Feng Shui. Just San Yuan alone would not be enough.

GK Ham: (obviously you do not know what you are talking about, if you study 2 system completely you would not be making this statement. San Yuan is a complete system and San He is a complete system, I’ve decided to dedicate my career on San Yuan, case close)

After these few Qs and As, in my mind, I thought Mr. Leung just has an interest in Feng Shui, so it is natural for those who are not in the field to make self and wrong assumptions about different systems or try to create hybrid systems.

When we reach his hotel, my relative asked me whether want to join them(Mr. Leung’s old friend Mr. Liu who is from China doing investment in Penang, and Mr. and Mrs Tan and their small daughter) for drinks, since it is still early, I have decided to join in.

When we sat down, Mr. Liu told my relative that Mr. Leung had helped a lot of people become rich in China. My relative was introduced to Mr. Leung a few days ago through Mr. Liu due to their business relation. Instantly it hit me, that Mr. Leung is also in Feng Shui consultant and Mr. Liu was trying to recommend him to my relative. I have become a human shield because most likely my relative find it hard to turn Mr. Liu down and thus bring me into the picture.

Anyhow, since I am stuck in the position, I might as well enjoy the afternoon tea. Then I saw Mr. Leung bring out his Chinese 10,000 years calendar and a note pad. Mr. and Mrs Tan wanted Mr. Leung to do BaZi analysis for their daughter who is having some illness. After Mr. Leung write up the BaZi, I had a brief glance on the BaZi as I was sitting next to him.

Mr. Leung decided to start his BaZi analysis on the Mr. Tan daughter, “Your daughter belong to water element, water strong like the sea.” (Because his daughter is strong REN壬 Water) “ Her illness will go away when she is 11, she will somehow find some doctors or person that will help her, when she reach her that age. Currently her strong water is being block by Earth, therefore the water cannot run smoothly.”

The young girl is Strong Ren Water, going through XU戌 Earth luck( which later when I go through my calendar, actually she is going through YOU酉 luck, apparently he made a mistake when writing up the young girl’s chart).

Plus her Ba Zi chart has an inherent SI巳, WU午, WEI未 forming Fire in the bottom. Using just a Yi 乙 Wood to prevent both fire and water from clashing. When she was born 7 years ago , the illness is not evident because year is GUI WEI癸未, followed by JIA SHEN甲申 and then YI YOU乙酉. All of it has wood, therefore the evident clash is not there at least until 2006.

The inherent clash, surfaced this year because GENG YIN 庚寅 year, Geng 庚combines with Yi乙 wood and thus inherent fire beneath clash upwards with the water, desease related to the blood. She suffers from Lupus.

(If you got lost in the above explanation, in brief his interpretation of the chart is not detail enough to get to the root of the problem)

Mr. Leung knowledge level is obviously not ready for him to go into this profession full time. Writing up BaZi chart and does not know the difference of Jie Qi 节气 for entering the month is not qualified to be giving advice to others.

I have no idea where he learn his BaZi or Feng Shui, anyway I am not interested to know. No wonder this field is being shun by some parts of the general public, it is these standard of “consultants” going around giving others advice on things and knowledge they thought they knew it inside out. Which in actual fact, what they are doing is just giving Chinese Metaphysics a bad name.

My advice is, if you learn it for own knowledge, you can consult your own family members and friends while maintaining a good feedback relation with your master, at least they can tell you when you make a mistake and correct you.

If you are doing it full time as a career. Thinking learning from books and some short talks by Feng Shui master, then you are trying to take a short cut and not doing your dues. The law of karma always catches up with you when you have done a string of damage through your advices to countless families and businesses. Which in reality their life would be better off not taking up your service in the first place!

And if you are doing it full time and try to wing it, one day there might be someone like me who just happen to sit next to you when you are doing your consultation and write up on his blog about it.

(All names have been changed for privacy reasons except for Mr. Leung)

Is it better to be smart or lucky?

These few days have been doing Feng Shui audits for families that have growing childrens and also friends have been voicing concerns and excitement of their children school major examination.

From my own experience of being in formal school for 16 years, much of the 11 years are more about examining or testing how good my memory is compared to the rest of my class. Only later years in my college and uni that started to require me to use my own analysis and viewpoint into a subject or discussion.

I still find it true that examination in primary and high school has nothing to do and not a way to gauge how high a person will achieve in society.

From a Chinese Metaphysic conclusion, if your youth luck is favourable, then likely you will perform above average as a student. If you have unfavourable luck during your youth, you will encounter alot of difficulties and distraction in your study or shall we say memorizing capabilities.

Then the answer is obvious, from purely a grade standpoint in school, it is much better to be lucky than smart. If you are lucky and smart then you will be a top student.

Sometimes I find parents over stress themselves on how will a child perform in school. I would be more concern on how their prime age luck would turn out and which area that they can most likely be successful with what they are already being equipped from the day they are born. Each person character traits and luck phases or cycle will be different. It is doing the right thing at the right time such as venturing into own business OR maintain in a corporation during those times will ended differing you from a mediocre achiever or a high achiever in life. Timing is everything, knowing when you luck trend is in your favour and when to lay low is a critical part to master if you want to win in the game of life.

Then as a parent, our job is to provide and guide our children to best maximize their destiny in life instead of just preparing them to be good at the memory game in our school system.

Prepare them in life skill such as politeness, able to engage in a friendly conversation, rapport skills with others, how to think constructively and critically, how to stand up and speak up fo your rights, respect others, how to get into a real win-win solutions with others, how to enjoy finer things in life, how to laugh at yourself, laugh with others and many more that is not taught in school. But critical to their survival and success in any our modern society aroun the world!

-- Posted from my iPhone